"Grinds my gears"

I didnt know what to write for this blog. So i thought long and hard. And I then realized Im good at ranting about things that piss me off. Its like a specialty of mine, a talent. So here it is..

• You know what angers me, what really.. wait for it .. "grinds my gears". The risks of being quiet. Other people than fill it with there own interpretations. You're bored. You're depressed. You're shy. You're stuck up. You're judgmental. Like think about it.. when other can't read us, they write there own story. Not one we chose, not one that is true to who we are.

• Do you ever get into an argument with someone and you are actually unable to speak for a moment because you're so blown away by how utterly wrong and ignorant the other person being that you can not possibly understand how anyone could actually believe the things they are saying. (DONALD TRUMP)

• Here's something else. And before you read this, I promise you I am not insecure. But really I don't think good looking people realize how lucky they are. Its all very well telling people to love themselves, butts not so easy when society has skewed peoples perceptions to be beyond narrow and completely limited. Like seriously, if you don't conform to society's views of beauty , you're invisible. And god imagine how much it hurts when that is you.

• Its okay to disagree with thoughts or opinions expressed by others. It really is, BUT that does not give you the right to deny any sense they might make. NOR does it give you the right to accuse someone of poorly expressing there beliefs just because YOU don't like what they are saying. Just learn to be okay with things that are different from what you know, even if it means overcoming your pride and having to open your mind to beyond what is comfortable for you.

• DON'T YOU DARE ever get mad at someone for "changing". We learn new things and see new points of view everyday. Of course we change. 

• Ill be the first to admit it. We all make lists. List of what we want in a lover, like brown hair and a sweet voice. Someone intelligent with a good heart. Someone with a great sense of humor, who can always make you laugh. This and that. But its all bullshit. Because people aren't lists. And I want people to realize that. I want to come across someone with a list in there head that is nothing like the person I am, and I want to show them what they didint know they were even looking for. If you think you know what you're looking for, you're fooling yourself. Nobody knows what they're looking for.. not until its right in front of them.